Sunday, 01 November 2009
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And the Douchebag Award goes to.....
My daughter's boyfriend, Travis. Please forgive me while I rant to the sniffling little asshat for just a moment.
Travis,
You are a small, small little boy and I hope you feel like shit for what you did last night. I trusted you to take my daughter out for a night of trick or treating and you bailed on her like the pussy boy that you are. Did you feel like a big man when you left her half dressed in that parking lot with no way home? (Side note, she was dressed in a very skimpy costume, he didn't steal half her clothes)
I believed you when you said you would make sure she got home safely. Getting home safely does not mean leaving her in a dark parking lot scared out of her mind and not knowing where you went. You didn't even have the courage to answer my multiple phone calls. You knew that I would tell you what a lowlife human being you are and you didn't want to hear it. Well, hear it now asshole.
You owe Whitney an apology. You owe this entire family an apology. Do you have any clue what could have happened to her last night in the time it took me to reach her? Thank God she did the right thing and called me the minute she realized you weren't coming back. It still took me almost fifteen minutes to reach her. Fifteen minutes that could have meant someone else walking up and doing heaven knows what to her. Do you not remember the girl that disappeared from this area not even a year ago? They are still looking for her. Is that what you wanted for Whitney??
I lost any respect I had for you last night. You screwed up and I plan on making you realize that for some time. You took my most precious item and you threw it away like yesterday's trash. Karma is a bitch and I hope it bites you in the ass very soon.
Signed,
Your worst nightmare
Now, for those that are going to read this and think; "Wow, coming down hard on the boy, but Whitney was at fault as well." Yes, yes she was. I yelled at her in person all the way home last night. She screwed up big time and she is paying for that mistake dearly. I took this outlet for the asshat only because he is to chicken to man up and take my call. All in all, they are both two stupid teens that made some really stupid decisions last night that they both regret, but if I don't get my anger out, I am going to kill him when I do see him.
End rant.
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Comments (31)
WTF?! If things aren't going well or you have somewhere else to be, take her home early and move on...don't freakin' just leave her somewhere with no way home! AUGH!! Please tell me that the fat lady has finally sung on this little romance.
@filtered_sunlight - Sadly no. I so want to forbid her from seeing him, but I know in doing so it will just make him that much more appealing.
I do want to kill him though.
whoa, that's irresponsible as hell.
WHOOOOOO U GO MAMMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@thoughmomma@xanga - LOL, I was worried I was being too subtle.
@gwacemom - if he just disappears, then the fat lady has to have sung...
@der_lila_Stern@xanga - By the time I am done with him, he will have wished I had just killed him.
@der_lila_Stern@xanga - I do love the way you think!
He LEFT her in a PARKING LOT, and she STILL wants to see him? Good God almighty, if I were that girl I would kick his ass to the curb faster than a fat kid at a pie eating contest.
@lizheartshakespeare@xanga - I feel the exact same way. The asshole STILL has not called to find out if she made it home okay. I only hope that she comes to her senses soon.
That is terrible, wow. You should not wait for karma to come bite him in the ass, you should be the karma instead,
i felt the anger radiating off this post, :|
i am glad your daughter is alright.
What an asshole. My mom had those same feelings towards Ella's *sperm donor*... especially when he said he didn't want to be involved.
Wow! I'm so glad Whitney was ok, and did the smart thing by calling you to come get her. That is terrible! I was going to say, boys are dumb, but I'm the mother of two little boys, and I think boys are ok, it's when they start growing into men, that they become dumber by the day! I'm afraid they can't help it, it's in that darn y chromosome. Anyways, glad you could rant on your blog, so you don't have to go to jail for killing the kid. :)
@gwacemom - What do you mean you want to forbid her from seeing him? Does she actually want to see this assfuck after that???
Your lucky you are not married to me because I would go over to his house and break his fucking neck in half!!! Then I would break his father's neck if he was stupid enough to attempt to step in.
I'd have to agree with ChevalierSeingal--if your daughter still wants to be with this sorry excuse for a male after what he did to her, you have more problems on your hands than that just that asshole :X Hope it all works out..and soon.
Wow. Doucheeeeee.
@Shopgirl0393@xanga - I agree. I just know that if I push the issue it becomes more about rebelling against me and less about realizing what an idiot he is. Heaven help me.
@AbsolutelyNormalChaos61308@xanga - I am trying to remain as quiet as possible in the hopes that Whitney will see what an asshat he is. I certainly can remember the more my mom hated the guy I was dating, the more I wanted to date him. Ugh.
Aww..I know, it's a difficult, entangled situation. Parenting is tricky business..not easy by any means. Props to you for caring enough to invest in your kids in the best way you know possible even when it's a struggle. Unfortunately, not all of them do nowadays. Take care and keep persisting! :)
Wow. He just left her there?
What a douche bag!
Is she still with him after that? How old are they?
My god, in her place I'd be furious, and in yours, too.
Can you ever look at him the same again?
@vtvtlpbx@xanga - Both are 15 and stupid. As of now they are "talking" but she is making him pay dearly for his actions. No, he knows full well how I feel about him at this point and has yet to face me. The chicken.
Haha that sounds about right.
I remember being 15, it wasn't that long ago. You love someone and they become your world. I don't know if I haven't had that in the past year because I've been working on forgetting my ex or something but nothing I've had since has been more then a crush.
The boyfriend I had used to beat me. Took me two years to work up the strength to leave him... That was a year from yesterday. My parents never said anything because they never knew. They're never home and they've never really been there...
I suppose as you get older, even love begins to become a bit more rational. But what am I on about, I'm not even 18 yet (November 4th is my bday, yayy!!!), I've still got alot to go through and figure out.
And of course I still have all my childish stupid problems and teen angst...
@vtvtlpbx@xanga - I'm glad you finally got out of that relationship. I guess I should consider myself lucky that the worst thing he did was leave her in a parking lot. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders.
Ehh, not exactly. Inside my head is a bit like a messy library. I'm more confused then Alanis Moristte when she sang "Ironic" (I say this because the fact that she doesn't know what irony is, is the most ironic thing about that song. Hehe I giggle every time I think this). But seriously, I always have some problem or another and I make alot of terrible desicions. I suppose it's not because I don't know I'm wrong, just because I'm impulsive. I get myself into a lot of sticky situations. But I suppose I always work on fixing things in the end. I guess I'm just a teenager?
Josh never left me in a parking lot, but he did take my clothes off me and throw them in a thorn bush in france and leave me there. He also left me in the dark in some village, kicked my leg (left me the hugest bruise), and ran off into the dark. Mum had to come pick me up that time. He also repeatedly kicked me and choked me (I thought I was going to die that night) in some tiny village near Prague and ran off with his mate. He was terrifying. He was an alcoholic and he had a heroin addiction. He used to carry around a huge knife and order me around, telling me he'd stab me if I didn't do what he said. I guess I thought I could change him. And eventually he'd brainwashed me so bad, I thought it was all my fault, and every time he'd hit me again, punch me, grab me by my hair, throw me to the floor, slap me, choke me, stomp on me, insult me, I'd always cry and apologise. Apologise for cooking. Apologise for singing in the shower. Apologise for "nagging at him not to take drugs". I'm lucky I'm here and I'm sane and I'm over him. Otherwise, I don't know where I'd be. I'd have thrown my life down the drain. All my grades dropped when I left him, but I still got into a top-notch university and it was worth all the pain and loneliness. It's all uphill from here (in that area at least, I have a lot of other issues).
The worst was that if I told someone, they thought I was exaggerating or asking for attention. Nobody believed me. And of course, when I was with him, I had nobody. He was my world.
Eh, if only mummy and daddy knew how bad it really was...
@vtvtlpbx@xanga - You are very lucky to have come out of that. It is nice to see that your life is taking a positive turn. You are indeed just a teen finding her way through life. Good luck.